By Casey Huang
1. Love Yourself – Do you love yourself? This is a serious question, because if you get into a relationship without truly loving yourself, how can you expect someone else to love you? Loving yourself means being a balanced person; it requires surrounding yourself with positive energy, being truthful to yourself about your own feelings, boosting your self confidence, growing spiritually, and being ready to receive and give love both mentally and emotionally. 2. Be Realistic – “If you are not a 10, don’t fixate on finding a 10!” the most fundamental attributes you should look in a mate are not looks and/or money but a loving heart, dependable nature and is commitment to you. 3. Make Dating A Priority – Always be prepared, you never know when or where you will meet your prince charming. If you are trying to find love, don’t just sit home all day and expect someone to fall on your doorstep; go out and socialize at a bar or party! 4. Opposites Should Not Attract – When getting to know someone, ask yourself if you and he have the same core values, such as lifestyles, morals, and sense of humor. 5. Present A Challenge – According to an experiment conducted a few years ago, they discovered that men are most attracted to women who are hard for other men to get - but not as hard for themselves to get! This may sound confusing; however, the key is to be selective. When you are interested in somebody, make sure he knows you like him, but do it in a way where he doesn’t think that you’d accept just anybody. It is okay to show your interest in somebody, as long as you do it with confidence. 6. Be A Sunny Girl –Don’t come out as masculine, dress stiff, start debating or arguing about world affairs on your first date. Lower your guard and be nice. 7. Don’t Be A Blabbermouth – During your first date, sure you may have lots of fun stories to tell, but save some for other dates. Give the man a chance to talk occasionally; don’t go overboard on talking about yourself! 8. Don’t Think About Changing Him – You should not date someone who is not the type of person you want in hopes that you will be able to mould him into what you want. If the person you are planning to get serious with does not even meet your basic requirements, then you either accept and respect him for who he is, or you just move on to the next. Trying to change him will only make both of you miserable. 9. Don’t Be Threatened By Your EX – When you start dating someone, don’t start comparing him to your ex. Let it go and forgive your past lovers, don’t bring in pain from past relationships and carry around resentment. It brings negative energy and pushes away the good things in your life. It may not be easy; however, it is not a good idea because you may be disappointed in finding out that they may be either too alike or too different. Also, don’t talk about your ex on the first few dates, it is a major turn off, since it may sound like you are still in love with them. 10. Be Independent – After you’ve been on a few dates with your guy, don’t take his initial interest as a signal to latch on to him straight away. Don’t build your social life around him; make some time for yourself and your friends. Just because he is welcome to be an addition in your life does not make him your entire universe. Top 6 Flirting Tips 1. Eye Contact Eye contact is crucial; nothing shows more confidence and more sex appeal than meeting a guy’s eyes and keeping your gaze steady. After a few gazes give a nice smile, so he will make sure that it is really him you are flirting with. 2. Extra Swing To Your Step Women should be aware that when you are walking, guys are drawn to looking at your hips, thus adding a little more swing to your hips as you are walking in front of him will catch his attention. 3. Crossing Your Legs As You Sit If you are sitting down, not only will this action draw attention to your legs and make them look more slender, it will also show more of your feminine side, attracting his attention. 4. Leave Your Group Leave your pack for a while and give him a chance to approach you. No man can bear a rejection in front of a herd, thus don’t make him feel like he cannot approach you because you are surrounded by a wall of bodyguards. 5. Moistening Your Lips You often want to draw his attention to your lips, tempting him in imagining kissing you. You may do this by simply licking your lips once in a while, or applying lip gloss. 6. Playing With Your Hair This classic tip involves twirling with your hair or making it slightly fall in front of one eye, adding mystery and a come-hither look in your character. a
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