by John Yuan
Even though many men would like to deny it, they do not know much about sex. Men are convinced that they are amazing performers and have stopped yearning for more knowledge about lovemaking. Unfortunately, a large part of their knowledge has come from gossip or adult films, leading to a great deal of inaccurate information. To shed some light on this issue there is a new book called Be A Multi-Orgasmic Man, which manages to subvert many men’s myths and misconceptions. The book aims to teach men how to achieve multiple orgasm, which many men think is impossible, using a theory deriving from Taoism that concerns the balance of energy and is friendly toward nature. By means of this book we are able to delve into the mysteries of the male body and the untold mechanism of multiple orgasm. Many people would probably wonder exactly what a multiple orgasm for a man is. The true experience of a multiple orgasm varies with each person, but basically you feel merged with the universe and there seems to be no boundary of space and time - for one split second you feel your soul being emancipated from your mortal body. A critical difference between conventional sex and multi-orgasmic sex is that the latter does not necessarily entail ejaculation, which most men think is the climax of intercourse. However, multi-orgasmic sex enables you to achieve orgasm multiple times without ejaculation. The theory is that when you ejaculate you also lose much of your energy and you no longer feel the sex drive. If you are capable of retaining your sex energy, however, you may enjoy sex all night long. A true orgasm is not ejaculation. In fact, ejaculation and orgasm are two separate things. However, the two often occur close together in time, which is why many men confuse the two. A wholesome sexual experience should start with fondling or “foreplay” and then naturally move to intercourse. The purpose of sex is to take time and to enjoy the process rather than just to experience pleasure as soon as possible. Multi-orgasmic sex centers on the flow of sexual energy. The mechanism is similar to what women have – whole body orgasm. When sexually excited the male body stores sex energy and produces an erection. But what you should do is breathe deeply with your abdomen and help the energy circulate around other parts of the body. Abdominal breathing acts as a pump that lifts the stream of flowing energy to your upper body. At the same time you have to contract the same muscles that you use to stop urinating and feel the flow. Men have to exert some strength to contract this muscle. You also have to focus on every subtle change in the body and clear your mind from annoyances. Most importantly, you have to do this with your partner. Perfect sex is built on the foundation of mental connection with your partner. Otherwise, it would be nothing more than exercise, which is definitely not the purpose of multi-orgasmic lovemaking. The author of the book argues that by practicing multi-orgasmic sex men can avoid the loss of energy caused by ejaculation. Taoists claim that holding semen acts as a way to store energy. Excessive ejaculation may debilitate and gradually drain the male body. But multi-orgasmic sex does not entail ejaculation and also provides more sexual pleasure. Another plus is that multi-orgasmic sex is suitable for middle-aged or elderly men. As the author puts it, after multi-orgasmic sex you will feel refreshed and uplifted. You can even spare the complaints from your partner when you fall into a deep unconscious sleep right after a night of passion. As a breakthrough in your relationship, now you have plenty of time to caress and please your beloved. Those who have succeeded in this practice share their testimonials in the book. For people interested in the techniques of multi-orgasmic sex, the book also includes detailed step-by-step directions along with illustrations. We don’t want to admit it, perhaps, but sex is something we cannot live without. a
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May 2024
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